Winner of the 2020 International Security Section of the APSA
Best Book by an Untenured Faculty Member
Honorable Mention, Diplomatic Studies Section Award
International Studies Association
What makes wartime enemies decide to start talking—and when does that decision shift? In The Costs of Conversation, Oriana Skylar Mastro argues that states weigh the strategic costs of engaging the enemy, and they only enter talks once those costs are low. Leaders primarily assess two risks: whether diplomacy will be seen as weakness, and how the enemy might alter its military strategy in response. Talks begin only when leaders believe diplomacy won’t backfire militarily.
Drawing on four cases—North Vietnam in the Vietnam War, China in the Korean and Sino-Indian Wars, and India in the latter—Mastro shows that strategic cost, not ideology or battlefield conditions, best explains when states choose diplomacy. Her work offers key insights into how wars end, with implications for military strategy, mediation, and peace negotiations.